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They hide behind compliments that are really back-handed insults like, “There’s so much more of you for me to squeeze.” It’s hard to remember that if a guy’s a douchebag, I don’t want him anyway. But sometimes all I can remember is the sting of rejection, his cruel remark, or him looking through me to the skinny model in the corner.
They wanted something honest about being my size and dating in Los Angeles.In addition to passing judgment, people make assumptions about what I like, how I feel, and what I eat.It’s always strange and amusing when a man is shocked to learn that I’m successful in my career, drive a new car, live in a nice home, etc.But my big hips preclude me from being relationship material? Some men assume that if you’re overweight, you are also desperate and use that as an excuse to treat you like dirt.I'm great for a roll in the hay but not to meet mom. Some prey on the vulnerability of heavy girls, hoping to get laid quickly and get out without any further commitments.
As if my being plus sized has somehow earmarked me for failure in life across the board.