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Sixth – if you insist on having a long distance relationship – he will NOT be monogamous!!!! NOTE: As a tourist you will NOT have access to quality Dominicans. BUT, no self respecting Dominican of quality wants to be with a tourist! The following applies to all foreign women not married to or living with a foreign man……. For all intents and purposes there are NO exceptions. This is very important and likely very different then what you are used to. If you befriend resort workers aka Sankies, then you are judged as like them. You will never be one of them; you will always be an outsider but an accepted outsider. There is a very evident double standard, well maybe a triple standard. Some Dominican women can behave in certain ways and they are “surviving”.
This is for the women dating or in relationship with a Dominican……. SPECIAL NOTE: do not have anything to do with anyone who does drugs, sells drugs or is interested in drugs!!!! **** Spend a year or two dating – assuming you did not come down for one guy – get a feeling for the place, understand the culture, work, socialize, enjoy and then you will be able to “maybe” handle a relationship. They must contribute, maybe not the same as you as they likely cannot afford your lifestyle.
NO, he does not need you to buy him a damn car; he can take the bus like everyone else. Do NOT believe them when they say they are clean – when they say they have to be tested for their work. Look up the statistics for AIDS exposure and infection throughout this whole island. When potential employees are seriously being considered they must go to a lab for testing. Dating moves at lightening speed – unlike most things that operate on Dominican time! Whatever you finally decide to do, do not for one moment ever think that your man is somehow ‘different’ and would never do any of these things to you.
NO, he does not need a computer so he can email you from home. It is very cheap to rent time and there is one on every corner. They are NOT tested for all STD’s nor are they routinely tested afterwards! You do not have any idea who he was with yesterday or even this morning!!! This is a very small society and don’t for a moment think that whatever you do is not being noticed and commented upon. It will move from a date or two to the bedroom, to him quietly slipping his personal items into your home or apartment. **** Make sure you understand how to protect yourself financially here! Let me assure you, you have absolutely no frame of reference back wherever you come from to be able to deal with this kind of person. Sankies are a breed onto their own and have 52 weeks a year and the potential for practicing on at least 40 or so women before he gets to you.
Women come here and get seduced by the island mentality, the Hollywood / Harlequin romance dream. He is someone who works in a field that gives him access to tourists – hotel worker, taxi driver, bartender etc etc etc But it can also be a lawyer, bank teller etc. He will then use that access to appeal to your need for romance, your need to be wanted, your need to experience the “dream” to separate you from your common sense, your wallet and in some cases your future. Often we wonder if women exchange their brain cells on the plane for an extra dose of hormones! There are tales of professionals – bank executives with master’s degrees falling for this. OF course that is not actually true – but, for you, the tourist – IT IS TRUE!!!!!!
**** Do not under any circumstances allow him to control your life.
The first time an American meets a Dominican, they may find themselves feeling a little confused by some of their actions.
Although, we may not find any of these things to be super out of the ordinary, others might disagree.
Spain soon lost interest in the island, but France and England fought each other and the Caribs for control throughout the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries.
After changing hands several times and two centuries of continuous British rule, Dominica became an independent republic on 3 November 1978. Not to be confused with the nearby Dominican Republic, Dominica is located between French-controlled Martinique and Guadeloupe in the eastern Caribbean.
There are many truly stunning men here, with good bodies, beautiful smiles and other “things”.